M.A., J.D., L.P.C.
Collaborative Divorce Coach
Collaborative Divorce Coach
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| Such a strong focus on
meeting the
needs of each person going forward requires a great deal of work and of
working together. Each of you will have to answer the
questions:
"What do I want my life to look like going forward from here?"
and
"What do I need in order to live the life I desire?" Your attorney needs the answer to that question in order to make sure that you are able to get what you need; but likely doesn't have the skills to help you determine what that is. That's where I can help. As a Coach I won't be doing therapy, but I do use some of my counseling skills and training to assist you as you work through the normal anger and fear and sadness to begin to see the life you desire. I will work with you on stress reduction and anger redirection as you determine what is needed for you to move toward that life. You may also struggle with
the notion
of "Work together? If we could work together we wouldn't be
getting
divorced!" Based on both of your needs, we might discuss bringing in a single Financial Specialist to advise you both of ways of using the assets you have together to achieve the needs you each have going forward. If you two have children together, we will work together on the special concerns and needs of co-parenting. We will always be focused on something you two almost certainly agree on: your desire for the best for your children. If needed, we'll all talk about the possibility of bringing in a single Child Specialist to advise you both as to what might work best for your children. |
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| And of course....Isn't this all going
to cost a
lot? In fact it is likely to cost less than a court battle and yield more satisfying results. |
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"The ending of a
marriage may not be easy,
but you do not have to
engage in a process that makes it harder.
Let me help!"